Narcissistic Wife. 10 Ways a Narcissistic Wife Treats Her Husband

The silent struggle of men in toxic relationships

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As a narcissistic abuse survivor, I often see dynamics that don’t receive enough attention — specifically the topic of narcissistic women.

While most people associate narcissism with grandiose men who lack empathy, it’s essential to discuss how narcissism manifests in women, particularly in relationships and marriages. Today, I want to address how a narcissistic wife treats her husband and the toxic patterns that arise in these situations.

If you’re a man in a relationship with a narcissistic woman, you may often question yourself, wonder if you’re the problem, or feel completely alone. This article outlines key behaviors of narcissistic wives and sheds light on the manipulation, control, and emotional abuse many men experience but hesitate to talk about. Let’s dive into the dynamics.

1. You Will Always Feel Like the Problem

One of the hallmarks of a narcissistic wife is that she will make you feel like you’re always at fault. Clients often ask me, “Am I the problem? Am I the narcissist?” Let me assure you — you are not. This is exactly how abusers want you to feel.